Posted 30 May 2012 - 07:55 PM
Hi my friends. I know it's been a long time. On the short my computer is toast and I rely on my cell which is difficult to menuver on. I am in grave need of my prayer warriors!
A very special young man in my life (friend's son) ended a 4 year relationship just before Valentine's Day. He quickly (less than a month) jumped into another relationship. I knew the first time I met her something was wrong. I cried that night because I couldn't pinpoint why I was uneasy with her...three months goes with me around this young woman every weekend. She has this young man doing everything she wants him to, while talking down to him, talking ugly about his family, and drinking on a daily basis...as well as sex.
M, the young man is about to graduate with a masters degree. He just finished up am intern where he strangely did not get asked to stay on...the other interns did. He us so consumed with L that his life is revolving around her and he doesn't see the poison. He is allowing her to talk to the family with a forked tongue. He is partying with her all the time. The drinking is out if control. L is clearly trying to put a rift in the family by trying to start things between each individual. Her stories don't match up.
Last, she does not let him practice his faith. Please understand this is NOT the biggest issue, but she is devout Jewish and laughed about how "we" act on Good Friday.
I love M and I see his life spiraling out of control. The family is torn. We're tired of the wedges she us trying to drive...tired if the lies...tired of the drinking...tired of the way she talks to him...tired of him being blind because sex is over shadowing the truth.
I know it sounds small, but this us huge. M has his life on the line, literally. I am thankful for all prayers.
Abba, Father, thank You for the gift if discernment in this situation. Thank You that I was not deceived by the lies. Daddy, You have blessed me over and over though I deserve nothing. You love me though I am broken.
Daddy, M is in trouble. The family does not know what to do. Daddy, I ask that all deciet and lies be brought to light immediately. Do not let darkness continue to fall on M. Daddy, I stand by Your word tgat everything hidden or secret will come to light, Mark 4:22. I ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.